A Year In: Counseling People through the PandemicThe first session I did after March 13, 2020, when we went into lockdown in Los Angeles, was under a weighted blanket in my empty office…Mar 16, 2021Mar 16, 2021
We Need Each Other and We Need to Be Needed by Each OtherEmbracing InterdependenceApr 8, 2019Apr 8, 2019
Parenting: The Paradox of Presence and PlanningThe gift of presence — of being fully emotionally present, in the moment, with another human being — has been on my mind a lot lately. As a…Jul 8, 2018Jul 8, 2018
The Upside of Fighting — Part TwoWhen I wrote Part 1 of “The Upside of Fighting,” I used the example of a mother and child to explore how the process of rupture and repair…Jun 18, 2018Jun 18, 2018
The Upside of Fighting — Part OneFighting with your partner is the pits! Being at odds can bring up feelings of extreme discomfort, fear, and pain. But it’s also part of…Jun 8, 2018Jun 8, 2018